Someone needs to bring Armstrong in to break through some of this drama as of late. His sparkly muscles ought to do the trick...though I think they have the tendency to freak people out just by looking at them.
On a serious note, hugs to you guys. I feel bad that all this is going on and it's affecting many of you for doing something you love (and it's seriously kicked me to the curb more than once). If you guys need to talk, whether to chat about anything or via PM - say the word, I'll be around.